Self-blame is harsh, inflexible and can keep us in a shame cycle. We become “stuck” in the problem, repeatedly blaming and criticizing ourselves. When we are always “at fault,” it often leads to fear of making more mistakes. It stunts our learning and our relationships.
Notice when your self-talk is accusatory. That’s self-blame.
Personal accountability is flexible and can lead us towards acceptance. When we engage in the vulnerability that is required to take accountability, we approach clarity and more understanding of the situation. What you’ll also find when you take responsibility for any part of the situation is… you’ll hold more compassion for others involved. Compassion is an invitation to heal together.
Written by: Elaine Raif
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