April: Moving with Change

Elaine Raif • May 2, 2024

As our living context or circumstances change—both by inevitable forces (like aging) and by our calculated choices—the way we manage key areas in our lives naturally shift too.

These key areas include our relationships, personal needs, priorities and more. We shift in how closely or distantly we engage in what has historically been long-running commitments and communities— and that’s okay.

It is okay to need more or need less. Our wellness requires it.

To navigate changes, especially ones we’re facing for the first time, we must practice the ability to reassess our needs and priorities.

We’re tasked to consider the new and different ways we manage our health and wellness in this current context. We reflect on what we have capacity, time, energy and resources for in this current context.

Because we are always in moments of transition between one context to another, change can often bring forth grief. Give space and turn towards what/who you are grieving. Try asking yourself, “What and who am I shedding? Why?”

As you reflect, we invite you to hold the perspective that: I foster contentment and resilience through change by meeting myself with patience, truth and forgiveness.

Written by: Elaine Raif

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