It’s undeniable how much pain is in our atmosphere. With all the
turmoil, injustice, and distress across
oceans, cities and in our own spaces, it is heavy.
While we might have the urge to engage in or implement tools to push past pain—to get to the other side of it—there is healing in allowing
In the allowing, we give ourselves the permission to see and sit in the truth of our heaviness, anguish.
It’s true—I’m hurting. It’s true—My pain is showing. And it’s also true that I’m human. As humans, we do not have an endless supply of drive, energy, head- and heart-space… we have limits to what and how much we can carry.
So for now, if you have not yet given space for your hard feelings, allow. Allow tenderness, allow the feelings to wash over you. Allow humanness.
“I’m not ready yet and that’s okay, I will sit in this feeling for now.”
There will be time to reassess the hard feelings. And you will, eventually. Assessing readiness is an important part of healing. Assessing readiness is compassionate towards self. Assessing readiness says “I will show up authentically. I will be honest about my capacity. I deserve to take time and space to just be.”
Written by: Elaine Raif
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