We are flawed humans– our imperfections will inevitably create challenges in every season of our lives. We will continuously be tasked to navigate this practice of not punishing ourselves for things we can no longer change.
While it’s tempting to look back at our suffering and draw self-blame, know that we have another choice: self-forgiveness. Self-forgiveness is key to healing and it will be unique to you as you grow a deeper understanding of your past experiences.
Self-forgiveness is hard and scary… at times, we might even feel like we don’t deserve or aren’t worthy of it. Through therapy, we unpack our hurt and the hurt we’ve caused; we uncover and make meaning of our past choices; then we must learn to meet all (younger) versions of ourselves with compassion. We allow ourselves to start anew, to try again…
When we don’t, we gradually cultivate a path to destruction and self-hatred. Self-hatred is not protecting you or anyone else.
There is so much anguish and pain for our younger selves. When we’re ready, to forgive our past self is to breathe new life into our choices and healing today. We walk with all versions of self so we must try to make space for self-forgiveness.
Repeat this mantra: I will not condemn my past self for the knowledge and wisdom I have now. I will choose to forgive myself in ways that feel kind and meaningful to me.
Written by: Elaine Raif
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