We often have to sit in the middle of our hurt in order to get to the other side. With vulnerability, we acknowledge the nuances of our experiences and find acceptance in it.
However, people maintain patterns–though maladaptive–because it’s familiar and safe. In therapy, we know we’re asking you to do the difficult task of choosing different behaviors and thus, to feel a little “unsafe.”
To hold the mirror up to ourselves and be curious about our ways of being–it can feel uncomfortable. You might not be ready or up to the task and that’s OK. We have to normalize the challenges in choosing to heal.
Healing is a choice. A practice.
So while it’s uncomfortable and scary, should you find the motivation or the “why” in your journey, you’ll find that there’s also a lot of insight and growth in the exploration of you.
It’s a gift to better understand ourselves so that our values, intentions and thoughtful decisions lead our lives rather than impulse/reactivity because of unresolved trauma.
Ask yourself, “Why do I heal?” and make a list. Then circle the one that matters most to you. Let this be a reminder that our “why” is more powerful than our fears.
Example:
I heal because…
Written by: Elaine Raif
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