No one likes being a beginner; it leaves us feeling vulnerable, brings up feelings of shame, taps into our perfectionism and so on… Still, being a beginner means starting and becoming anew. It is an opportunity, not a display of failure.
As we evolve and our environments and relationships also change, we become beginners again. And again.. And again.. While this life-long experience can be frustrating and uncomfortable, it’s important to note that you are simply reassessing needs— our own and that of others. What do we need more of? What do we need less of?
In order to honor our relationships, we make healthy adjustments based on new and current needs. We can start over every day. We can raise questions, bring up hard topics, share asks and needs that perhaps we didn’t before— being a beginner means we have a choice to be different.
Even for our own personal journeys, to allow ourselves the curiosity and vulnerability of a beginner, we create room for possibility and potential. I hope when you are starting something new— a new job, a new relationship, a new hobby— that you see it as an opportunity for personal learning and an empowering decision to shape your future.
Written by: Elaine Raif
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